Some things are basic for the smooth and happy functioning of a marriage.
Honesty is the best policy, the more frank you are, and the fewer problems you will have in your relationship.
Do not leave your man wondering what you mean, let him know exactly what you mean.
A partnership always involves two persons. The marriage is not about a single person.
Ask him to be clear about the way he wants your relationship to be, and then be sure to acknowledge that in your persuasion. Once you have got a clear idea of what you will have to give or give up, the discussion shall be very clear and smooth.
You cannot change the mind, whether it is about a petty issue or a life changing problem. Your goal should not be about winning the arguments
Sometimes you may find yourself on the wrong side of arguments, pl do not be assertive, on the other hand, correct your wrong statement.
Try to listen to your man, everybody has after all a right to speak and duty to listen.
And last but the not least, find a suitable to do these things. No, not at time, when your man is too tired or when you are too exhausted.
A marriage is not a relationship of only bodies; it is essentially a relationship of minds.
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